Submitted by Sun Reporter2 on Tue, 2013-03-19 10:34
Question:
Dear Auntie Nangy, I’m a 25-year-old guy but I have a problem. Every time I want to have sex with her she doesn’t want to do it. What should I do auntie?
Answer:
You should respect her wishes and not force her to do anything that she does not want to do. To have sex or not is every person’s own choice and nobody else must ever do anything to jeopardise this choice.
Submitted by Sun Reporter2 on Tue, 2013-03-19 10:34
Question:
Dear Auntie Nangy I’m a girl of 19. I am in love with a guy and I know that he is also in love with me. He is just scared to say something. I miss him a lot and we only meet at the village. What can I do auntie? I have had strong feelings for him for almost seven years now.
Answer:
Next time you see him just walk up to him and say “hi” and start talking to him about everyday things like what he likes to do and so on. Both of you are shy and if one of you does not make the first move nothing will happen, so just take the lead and approach him. You will see it is not nearly as difficult as you imagined and it can only lead to good things. Take care!
Submitted by Sun Reporter2 on Tue, 2013-03-19 10:33
Question:
Dear Auntie Nangy I’m a 17-year-old girl and my ex is disturbing me. It makes my boyfriend jealous and I don’t know what to do, I need your help auntie.
Answer:
If you have made it very clear to your ex that you are no longer interested in him and he still does not want to leave you alone then your new boyfriend can maybe let this guy know that he does not like him bothering you. It is also a good idea to ask an adult to let him know he is out of line. If that doesn’t work, you are also entitled to report him to the police. Good luck.
Submitted by Sun Reporter2 on Tue, 2013-03-19 10:33
Question:
Dear Auntie Nangy I am a lady of 29 and I don’t have a child. My boyfriend of 38 complains a lot when I tell him I don’t feel well. He says I need to have a baby, because I suffer from problems with my intestines. He says the only way I will get better is if we have sex without a condom. Is that true auntie?
Answer:
No, it is not! What you should do if you don’t feel well is to see a doctor and definitely not listen to your boyfriend, especially as he is telling you something that is not true.
Submitted by Sun Reporter2 on Mon, 2013-03-18 10:36
Question:
Dear Auntie Nangy, I am 36 and married to a 30-year-old lady. My problem is that since I started having sex I’ve just been doing it with a condom. Now that I’m married, we want to have a baby, but whenever I have sex with her I don’t feel anything and I can’t ejaculate as easily as when I’m wearing a condom. Is there any problem with me? Please help me save my marriage.
Answer:
This is a small psychological problem that you have to overcome. Your mind probably associates having sex without a condom as doing something unsafe. You just have to relax and not concentrate on the act of sex but on the enjoyment that making love to your wife gives you. The fact that you do ejaculate means that you can make her pregnant. It may be a good idea that both of you see a doctor, just to make sure that everything, other than your delayed ejaculation, is in order.
Submitted by Sun Reporter2 on Mon, 2013-03-18 10:35
Question:
Dear Auntie Nangy, I am a guy of 21 and I have been dating a girl for six years now. I found out that she cheated on me two weeks ago and I broke up with me. But she calls me every day and shares jokes as usual. It makes me sick, because I still love her, I don’t know what to do.
Answer:
Love is about forgiveness and it seems that she really feels bad that she cheated on you. I think she still loves you and that is why she phones you every day. You have dated for a long time and people make mistakes, so why don’t you talk to her and tell her that you still love her and see if you cannot forgive her for her mistake.
Submitted by Sun Reporter2 on Mon, 2013-03-18 10:35
Question:
Dear Auntie Nangy, I don’t want a boyfriend anymore. Is it a problem to stay alone?
Answer:
No dear, it’s not a problem. There’s a saying that a woman needs a man like a fi sh needs a bicycle. If you are happy with being on your own then you really don’t need to feel pressured to have a boyfriend. Do not do something because society expects it of you but do what makes YOU happy and if you don’t want a boyfriend it’s not something that will hurt anyone else so go ahead and be single. If you feel like having a boyfriend at a later stage then that is also your choice. Take care.
Submitted by Sun Reporter2 on Mon, 2013-03-18 10:35
Question:
Dear Auntie Nangy, I’m a 19-year-old girl and I really don’t know what to do, because I’m a lesbian and I like to hang out with guys. My family doesn’t like it. Please tell me what to do, because I really want to be happy in life.
Answer:
Dear, I’m a little confused. Is your family unhappy because you’re a lesbian or because you hang out with guys? Ultimately you are the one that is in charge of your life and you’re the one that can make yourself happy or not. It is a fact of life that when you have made peace with yourself and love yourself with all your faults and strengths, then you will be happy. Of course people around you are important as no one lives on an island. If your loved ones see that you are happy and comfortable with who you are, then they will accept you because they also love you.
Submitted by Sun Reporter2 on Mon, 2013-03-18 10:34
Question:
Dear Auntie Nangy, My husband and I work in different places and when he comes home for the holidays he barely touches me. Could he be cheating on me?
Answer:
When two people are apart from one another, even when they’ve been in a long-term relationship, there is always a period of adjusting and it could very well be that in this case. The fact that you do have a long distance relationship makes it very important that you have a open line of communication and that you have to work harder and talk to each other even more than people who see each other every day. That is the long and the short of it - talk, talk and talk. This is especially true when it comes to your fear that he is cheating.
Submitted by Sun Reporter2 on Mon, 2013-03-18 10:34
Question:
Dear Auntie Nangy, I am a 14-year-old girl and all the guys think I am ugly, because I’m so dark. I can’t get a boyfriend and it makes me want to commit suicide. Help me.
Answer:
Angel, there’s a saying that beauty lies in the eye of the beholder which just means that every single person has a different view of what is beautiful. Auntie has absolutely no doubt that there are guys that will find you drop dead gorgeous. Feel proud of your exotic looks and don’t try to hide it but fl aunt it. Be different, dress different, be self confident exactly because you ARE different and soon you will have to beat the guys away with a stick. Take care!
